Because Lasting Love Is About More Than Finding a Match.
The foundation of every healthy relationship begins within. Through personalized matchmaking and transformational coaching, I help clients uncover the patterns shaping their relationships so they can approach every introduction with greater clarity, confidence, and the ability to recognize genuine compatibility.
Meet Nicole
Founder/ Professional Matchmaker/ Relationship coach
Most people believe the challenge is finding the right person.
But after years of working closely with singles navigating modern dating, and navigating my own relationship challenges and dating experiences, I’ve found that the greatest obstacles to lasting love often begin long before a relationship ever starts.
The partners we choose, the dynamics we repeat, and the relationships we struggle to let go of are often influenced by patterns operating beneath our awareness.
As a Matchmaker and Relationship Expert, I’ve learned that meaningful relationships aren’t built through introductions alone. They’re built through greater self-awareness, healthier relationship choices, and the ability to recognize genuine compatibility when it appears. That’s why my approach combines personalized matchmaking with transformational coaching—because my goal isn’t simply to help you find the right person, but to help you recognize, choose, and sustain a healthy relationship when you do.
“Finding love isn’t just about meeting someone. It’s about becoming the version of yourself capable of receiving it.”
Every love story begins from a different place, but my goal remains the same: to help you create meaningful change that lasts far beyond a first date.
How It Works
A More Intentional Path to Love
Discover Your Story
Every meaningful relationship begins with understanding you.
Together, we’ll explore your relationship history, values, attraction patterns, emotional triggers, and the beliefs that may be shaping your dating experiences. From there, we’ll determine the approach that’s the best fit for your journey—whether that’s beginning with personalized matchmaking supported by coaching throughout the process, or starting with transformational coaching to create a stronger foundation as you begin your path to lasting love.
Build the Foundation
Lasting love begins by changing more than who you choose—it begins by changing what continues to choose for you.
Together, we’ll identify and break through the unconscious patterns, limiting beliefs, emotional blocks, and relationship dynamics that may have kept you repeating the same cycles. As you develop greater self-awareness, confidence, and trust in yourself, you’ll begin approaching relationships from a place that’s more intentional, grounded, and aligned with the partnership you truly want.
Thoughtful Introductions
Once we have a clear understanding of who you are and what you’re looking for, I’ll begin introducing you to carefully selected matches who align with your values, goals, lifestyle, and vision for partnership.
Every introduction is intentional.
Learn Through the Process
Every introduction provides valuable insight.
We’ll reflect on each experience together, celebrate what’s working, and refine your approach when needed so every step moves you closer to the relationship you’re looking for.
Ongoing Partnership
You’re never navigating this process alone.
From thoughtful introductions to personalized coaching, date preparation, feedback, and continued support, I’ll guide you through every stage of your journey toward lasting love.
Ways to Work Together
Find the Path That Fits You
Every client begins somewhere different. Together, we'll determine the approach that's the best fit for your goals.
Personalized Matchmaking + Coaching
A highly personalized experience for individuals who are serious about finding a meaningful, lasting relationship. Rooted in Love combines personalized matchmaking with transformational coaching to help you break free from limiting relationship patterns and approach dating with greater confidence and clarity.
- Personalized introductions
- Match selection and vetting
- Date preparation, planning and feedback
- Ongoing coaching support
- Relationship strategy sessions
Transformational Coaching
For individuals who want to begin their journey before matchmaking, or who are looking for personalized guidance to create healthier dating experiences and stronger relationship dynamics. Whether you're preparing for matchmaking or simply looking to grow with the guidance of an experienced relationship expert, coaching offers a personalized space to strengthen the foundation for lasting love.
- Relationship patterns
- Attachment styles
- Self-worth and confidence
- Boundaries and communication
- Emotional availability
- Limiting beliefs and mindset
- Attraction and compatibility
Join the Singles Database
I believe the right introduction is about more than shared interests—it’s about genuine compatibility. My complimentary Singles Database allows me to thoughtfully consider you as a potential introduction for one of my matchmaking clients whenever I identify a connection that feels like a strong mutual fit.
- Complimentary to join
- Become part of my private singles network
- Personally contacted to discuss a potential introduction if I identify a strong mutual fit with one of my matchmaking clients
I’d Love to Hear Your Story.
Every person who comes to Rooted in Love has a different journey. Let’s talk about where you are, where you’d like to be, and the approach that will best support you in creating the relationship you’re looking for.
Explore Working Together
Stories of Connection
Nicole is very caring, supportive, and genuine, and I truly enjoy working with her. She has taken the time to get to know me and the qualities that are important to me in a partner. Her matches are more consistently on target than those from other matchmakers.
— L.J.L.Nicole has a remarkable gift for understanding people on a deep, intuitive level. She takes the time to truly get to know her clients and what they need in a partner, ensuring that every introduction she makes is thoughtful and meaningful.
— F.P.Nicole revealed more to me about myself and my relationship patterns in the first month than I've learned in the past year in therapy. The personal epiphanies so far have been mind blowing and very revealing to me. these new understandings will lead to me being the best version of myself, which is what makes her different than any other matchmaking service I've seen.
— C.C.A Final Word
The Relationship You’ve Been Searching For May Begin With a Different Approach.
Finding lasting love isn’t about becoming someone else. Sometimes it’s about seeing yourself, your relationships, and the patterns you’ve been repeating with greater clarity. Small shifts can lead to profoundly different outcomes.